What are the five greatest days of your life? If you are a parent—with few exceptions—your list will most certainly include the day you welcomed a child into the world. Welcoming a child into the world is woven together with amazing, magical and scary.
A day engrained in your memory and brought back to life every time you think about the flood of emotions that swept over you the first time you held your son or daughter.
The context of a great question can sometimes elicit a simple response. I asked my friend, “What time is it?” My friend quickly looked at his watch and responded with the time of day. I smiled and replied, “Not what is the time of day, but what is your time in life?” Leo Tolstoy said, “There is only one time that is important–now! It is the most important time because it is the only time we have any power over.”
My question was really curiosity about the direction of his hope and ambition. Kyle Idleman in his book Not a Fan tells a story about a young girl who was killed in a car accident. Brittany was only 17 years old when she died. Shortly before the accident, Brittany had opened a checking account. When her father went to the bank to close the account he noticed she had only written one check—Compassion International to sponsor a child.
What do you think I am a short-order cook?” My mom said this to me more than a few times when I was growing up. I am sure I didn’t really think about it at all until she said it. Surely a not so subtle reminder of how I just assumed she would step up to do what was needed or necessary to serve her kids.
Isn’t that what moms do? They love, support and nurture regardless of the circumstances and whether their contributions are acknowledged. It is the very reason Anna Jarvis organized the first Mother’s Day in 1908.